Beyond the last full measure

Chaplain retires from service after completing the mission his son began.

3 generations of Unger service members.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, middle, and Pfc. Murray Unger, right, captured in this illustration three generations of the Unger family.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, middle, and Pfc. Murray Unger, right, captured in this illustration three generations of the Unger family.

by Sgt. 1st Class Amanda H. Johnson
1st Lt. Paul Han

California National Guard Public Affairs

Feb. 16, 2021

SACRAMENTO, Calif. –

There are dates throughout a person’s life which are remembered, some with much more significance than others; markers which hold personal meaning and conjure strong emotions.

For California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, chaplain, one of these dates is his recent official retirement from the guard, Dec. 5.

However, May 25, 2004, was sadly another critical date for Chaplain Unger and his wife, Lynda. It was the day a casualty assistance team came to their home with the news their son was killed in action at the age of 19. Their son, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Paul Unger, assigned to the California Army National Guard's 1st Battalion, 184th Infantry Regiment was killed in action at forward operating base Kalsu, Iraq.

The small post was in southern Iraq, 20 miles south of Baghdad. It was next to a main supply route used by U.S. and international military forces to transport supplies to service members stationed throughout the country.

The small military post was a blacked-out base, which meant no lights were on past sunset until dawn. Armored tanks roved the perimeter throughout the night. Military service members walked the dirt roads secured by haskell barriers and armed security forces within the small footprint known as Kalsu.

Daniel’s role had been to provide security for a team of Iraqi contractors that tackled plumbing and electrical work on post. One day at 3:30 P.M., incoming fire hit the F.O.B. After the first volley, soldiers reacted as trained and evacuated to bunkers. All but Spc. Unger.

As shrapnel flew and other mortars approached, Daniel got the Iraqis to the bunker and, in the words of his Commanding Officer, “Once the attack started, Daniel placed his own well-being in jeopardy by making sure the civilian workers went inside the protective bunker before he did.” Then the third mortar hit.

Daniel was posthumously awarded the Bronze Star with Valor Device, Purple Heart and Combat Infantryman Badge. The two Iraqis he “herded” to the bunker were saved, said Ch. Unger through a tribute website to his son.

Daniel was the first California Army National Guard combat casualty since the Korean War.  On May 27, 2004 California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger ordered the Capitol flags flown at half-staff in honor of SPC Daniel Unger.

Then, six months later, on Dec. 5, 2004, Marc Unger commissioned in the California State Guard as a Chaplain. He served for 16 years, assigned to six different units, and fulfilled the role as battalion, brigade, and headquarters chaplain. The number of service members he shook hands with and ministered to are beyond a number that can be captured.

“Daniel’s dad had a very different reaction to the news brought by the chaplain on the death notification team that day four years ago,” said Chaplin Norris, a friend of Marc’s. “Pastor Marc decided to become a Chaplain, First Lieutenant Marc Unger. He is a part of the California State Guard and has been attached as the Battalion Chaplain to his son’s former battalion, the 1-184 Infantry of the California Army National Guard.”

“It is now Ch. Unger’s job to occasionally carry the same unimaginable words to other families,” said Norris in regard to being a part of the casualty assistance team during that period in his career. He did so with a sense of love and affection for his own son.

He saw his son’s sacrifice expressed in the words of the Holy Bible, John 15:13, “Greater love has no one than this that one lay down his life for his friends.”

When the Ungers think of their son, who was also a licensed minister, they take comfort in the fact that “Daniel’s life wasn’t taken, he laid it down for his friends: for those he was assigned to guard to be saved, for the Iraqi people to be free from tyranny and for the American people to remain free.”

California State Guardsman poses with shield presented by 1st Battalion, 184 Infantry Regiment award.
U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, left, and father, Marc Unger, right, pose in photo after graduation from infantry training.
California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, chaplain, speaks with members of the audience.
Chaplain Unger family photo.

The Unger family photo. From left to right: Marc, Elizabeth, Daniel, Anna, David and Lynda, at the Exeter Baptist Church, California, Spring 2002.

The Unger family photo. From left to right: Marc, Elizabeth, Daniel, Anna, David and Lynda, at the Exeter Baptist Church, California, Spring 2002.

Soldier poses in front of American flag.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger poses for his photo at basic training at Fort Benning, Georgia, during the summer of 2003.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger poses for his photo at basic training at Fort Benning, Georgia, during the summer of 2003.

Four soldiers stand in front of an American flag flown at half-mast in Iraq.

A flag is flown at half-mast in honor of U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger at FOB Kalsu, Iraq, in May 2004.

A flag is flown at half-mast in honor of U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger at FOB Kalsu, Iraq, in May 2004.

Sept. 11, 2001, is a date every American reflects on with horror and sadness. For Daniel, the following day was when he would solidify a path for his life.

Ch. Unger recalls his son’s words: “That makes me want to join the military, so I could fight against these kind of people (or a rescue team, so I could help our hurt civilians),” said Daniel, age 16 ½, in a letter he wrote Sept. 12, 2001, sealed in an envelope addressed to: My Grandchildren/Children.

Daniel joined the Army National Guard on August 13, 2002. He completed advanced individual training in the United States Army Infantry school at Fort Benning, Georgia, in October 2003. A few months later, he volunteered to be deployed to Iraq.

Daniel wrote to his family from F.O.B. Kalsu, Iraq in May 2004, “There was a mortar explosion inside the camp not far from where we were. Since we were IRF (Immediate Reaction Force), we all ran for our gear and vehicles. (That’s the ironic thing about us. Normal people would go hide but we all ran out into the middle of everything to go look for the attackers.)”

“More and more explosions were coming in now and I could see shrapnel flying around. I was running to my Humvee as I was pulling my vest on and slapping in a magazine…When I jumped in, I remember praying, ‘Lord, please get me back to my family.’ As we were leaving camp, a total of fifteen mortars landed inside this time…The next day, they confirmed we killed a two-man RPG team.” Other than the IRF team, everyone ran to the safety of the bunkers and were saved,” he concluded.

Ch. Unger’s retirement ceremony was presided by Soldiers of the 1-184 Infantry which 1-185 Infantry merged into the 1-184th, including U.S. Army Lt. Col. Fritz Roggow, the commander of the 1-184 Infantry, Col. Robert Wooldridge, Deputy Division Commander, and Major General Thomas W. Eres (Adjutant General, Ret).

Dozens were in attendance, many joining virtually to witness the recognition of his many years of service. He earned several awards ranging from the Army Commander's Award for Civilian Service, California Medal of Merit with three Oak Leaf Clusters; California Commendation Medal with four Oak leaf Clusters; California Service Medal; California State Meritorious Achievement Medal with two Oak Leaf Clusters; and many more.

He was presented the California Legion of Merit, a California Military Department award given for exceptional meritorious conduct in the performance of outstanding services and achievements as well. A ceremony was held in honor of his service. Speeches were made of his achievements, missions completed, number of troops and units he assisted during his career. An atmosphere of gratitude encapsulated the small group of service members gathered in honor of this man.

Dec. 5, 2020.  16 years later, Unger has stepped out of the combat boots his son left him, fulfilling the charge of service to God and Country. He spent 40-minutes in the Oval office with President Bush in his California State Guard uniform (a first), counseled service members of Cal Guard, and assisted the top tier leadership of California Military Department, including four Adjutant Generals.

Unger did it all with his son, Daniel as the reason he started on this path. Now out of uniform, Unger continues as the pastor of First Baptist Church of Madera, California.

“You don’t know when your time on earth will end,” Daniel said in one of his sermon outlines. He was a licensed minister that shared God's Word across several different churches and programs like that in many prisons. "Something could happen to you unexpectedly and you should make yourself right with God now while you still can because you might not have the time you think you do.”

Often, you'll hear of a son following in his father's footsteps. But for this family, the story is reversed.

As Mary Oliver, an American Pulitzer prize poet said, “When it’s over, I don’t want to wonder if I have made of my life something particular, and real. I don’t want to find myself sighing and frightened, or full of argument. I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.”

Spc. Unger never wondered what his life and purpose was, he didn’t visit this world. He saved a part of it. 

He counseled others in the name of his beliefs and gave his life in the last full measure of devotion for the protection of others. His father picked up the same task and fulfilled 16 years of continuing the tradition of love, ministry, and service.

The dates are important, Unger pinpointed every significant date with enthusiasm and fortitude. Much like his record of service, he never faltered in recognition of what each day meant, nor the message he passed along from the most junior enlisted to the top tier leadership.

“It’s the soldier, not the preacher, who gives us freedom of religion. It’s the soldier, not the reporter, who gives us freedom of the press. It’s the soldier, not the lawyer, who gives us a right to a fair trial,” Pastor Unger quoted a well-known poem by Charles M. Province, on his son’s memorial placard at the Daniel Unger Memorial Park in Exeter.

“It’s the soldier who keeps us free.”

Soldier poses with honorary shield and medal.

Retired California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, a chaplain, poses with honorary shield and Legion of Merit medal presented to him from the 1st Battalion, 184th Infantry Regiment, Dec. 5, 2020, in Fresno, California.

Retired California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, a chaplain, poses with honorary shield and Legion of Merit medal presented to him from the 1st Battalion, 184th Infantry Regiment, Dec. 5, 2020, in Fresno, California.

Memorial plaque in honor of U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger.

A bronze plaque describes Unger's son, Daniel and his sacrifice for his country at the Daniel Unger Memorial Park, a 5-acre park located at the northeast corner of South Belmont Road and West Glaze Ave. in Exeter, California.

A bronze plaque describes Unger's son, Daniel and his sacrifice for his country at the Daniel Unger Memorial Park, a 5-acre park located at the northeast corner of South Belmont Road and West Glaze Ave. in Exeter, California.

A Hero's Love: The Daniel Unger Story. The true story of an Army Specialist who pays the ultimate sacrifice to save the lives of two Iraqi civilians, the heroic life he lived, and the countless lives he inspired. Please visit http://www.danielunger.com/index.html for more information about this film.

A Hero's Love: The Daniel Unger Story. The true story of an Army Specialist who pays the ultimate sacrifice to save the lives of two Iraqi civilians, the heroic life he lived, and the countless lives he inspired. Please visit http://www.danielunger.com/index.html for more information about this film.

Soldier poses with father and friends in karate uniforms.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, top center, poses with friends at the Marc Unger Karate program in Exeter, California before his deployment to Iraq in 2004.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, top center, poses with friends at the Marc Unger Karate program in Exeter, California before his deployment to Iraq in 2004.

Chaplain Unger poses with President George W. Bush and wife, Lynda, in the Oval office of the White House.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, President George W. Bush, center, and wife, Lynda Unger, take a photo in the Oval office in Washington, D.C., May 22, 2007. The Ungers were invited to visit with the President in honor and recognition of their son's sacrifice.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, President George W. Bush, center, and wife, Lynda Unger, take a photo in the Oval office in Washington, D.C., May 22, 2007. The Ungers were invited to visit with the President in honor and recognition of their son's sacrifice.

Soldier poses with parents before deploying to Iraq.

Lynda Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, center, Pastor Marc Unger, right, pose with their son before he deploys to Iraq at Fort Irwin, California, March 13, 2004.

Lynda Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, center, Pastor Marc Unger, right, pose with their son before he deploys to Iraq at Fort Irwin, California, March 13, 2004.

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Soldier poses with father and friends in karate uniforms.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, top center, poses with friends at the Marc Unger Karate program in Exeter, California before his deployment to Iraq in 2004.

U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, top center, poses with friends at the Marc Unger Karate program in Exeter, California before his deployment to Iraq in 2004.

Chaplain Unger poses with President George W. Bush and wife, Lynda, in the Oval office of the White House.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, President George W. Bush, center, and wife, Lynda Unger, take a photo in the Oval office in Washington, D.C., May 22, 2007. The Ungers were invited to visit with the President in honor and recognition of their son's sacrifice.

California State Guard Maj. Marc Unger, left, President George W. Bush, center, and wife, Lynda Unger, take a photo in the Oval office in Washington, D.C., May 22, 2007. The Ungers were invited to visit with the President in honor and recognition of their son's sacrifice.

Soldier poses with parents before deploying to Iraq.

Lynda Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, center, Pastor Marc Unger, right, pose with their son before he deploys to Iraq at Fort Irwin, California, March 13, 2004.

Lynda Unger, left, U.S. Army Spc. Daniel Unger, center, Pastor Marc Unger, right, pose with their son before he deploys to Iraq at Fort Irwin, California, March 13, 2004.